From Spas to Barbershops, Hereās Where to Get Pampered Like a Man
Letās normalize men taking a weekend to themselves. They deserve a little love too, and SoCal is built on a foundation of sun and self-care. Pamper? More like pamp-him. From San Diego to the City of Angels, we have your essential itinerary to looking and feeling your best. This to-do list will tackle head, shoulders, knees and toes! Weāre talking beds, baths and beyond. Gentlemen, start your engines: here are 11 self-care spots in Southern California that even the most manly of men would enjoy!
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Get a Man-icure at ToolboxĀ
Located in Santa Monica, Toolbox is not your everyday nail salon. It’s a modern man’s haven to be filed and styled. Their services include manicures, pedicures and grooming packages tailored to your preferencesāall delivered in a sleek, masculine atmosphere. Their talented nail technicians and attention to detail ensure a top-notch experience, and their Instagram-worthy space adds to the charm. Touted as āa new place to polish your act,ā this is a spot to see and not be seen, meaning men can enjoy privacy while they get pampered. You can get your hands manicured and massaged for $45, your feet furbished for $55 or your entire body buffed and polished for $95.
Location: Santa Monica
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Splurge on Some Self-Care at Jack Henry
Jack Henry in Costa Mesa is a versatile venue that combines the buzz of a busy barbershop with the calm of a serene self-care sanctuary made for enjoying a cold brew while getting a fresh cut. Wander into WIP goods before your appointment and enjoy something caffeinated and something crave-worthy. Jack Henry itself is an establishment that has perfected the art of grooming with skilled hairstylists ready to scrub, snip, and shave away your tresses and stresses. The laid-back atmosphere, talented technicians and a selection of grooming products make it a one-stop shop for self-care. If itās above the neck, theyāve got you covered!
Location: Costa Mesa
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Get Pampered at Wi Spa
Wi Spa in Los Angeles brings the Korean spa experience to Southern California, offering a range of saunas, baths and relaxation areas. Their services include body scrubs, massages and rejuvenating treatments. Wi Spa is really a tranquil treasure trove of hot rooms, cold rooms, treatment rooms and even a restaurant. This is a true mecca for men when it comes to getting those cortisol levels down and vibes up.
Just minutes from Hollywood and downtown Los Angeles, this spa-like sanctuary is a convenient and affordable way to indulge in wellness, be it a massage, scrub, facial, mani/pedi or anything else on their list of services. All treatments are under $200 (except for the Wi Spa special, which is a hair over at $210) and you are encouraged to hang out, get comfortable and basically take up residence in the unisex locker rooms or co-ed jimjilbang, home to their famous mineral saunas. They also have a restaurant, gym and rooftop terrace. And howās this for convenience: they are open 24 hours a day, seven days a week.
Location: Los Angeles
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Find Your Zen With Fit Athletic Yoga at The Rady Shell
Fit Athletic Yoga at The Rady Shell at Jacobs Park in San Diego provides outdoor yoga classes with stunning views of San Diego Bay, combining physical fitness with a healthy dose of much-needed mindfulness. This free offering booked through Eventbrite is a bootcamp-style yoga session that is made to get your body moving. Attendees are instructed to bring a mat, sunscreen (if needed), water bottle and a good attitude. Registration is required, so be sure to sign up ahead of time. Parking is limited as well so come early or even make an adventure out of it and take the Coronado Ferry over! Their next event is on Saturday, March 16 from 9:30 to 10:30 a.m. Sign up here to reserve your spot.
Location: San Diego
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Get a Facial at Clean Your Dirty Face
Taking care of your skin is essential for self-care. Clean Your Dirty Face caters to both men and women, providing tailored facials that address individual skin-care concerns. The tranquil atmosphere and facial-on-the-go energy means youāll be able to micro-dose in relaxation without sacrificing an entire afternoon. We recommend the 30-minute fast facial, which steams, deep cleans, exfoliates and moisturizes with an unbelievably delicious acupressure facial massage thatāll have you melting into your chair. Use code VIRGIN for 50% off for first timers. They also have a 5-minute flash facial for people who really donāt have time to dedicate to their poresāitās an AHA resurfacing mask thatāll leave you brighter and better.
Location: Studio City
Enjoy Peaceful Self-Reflection at Niguel Botanical Preserve

Sometimes self-care means finding solace in nature. The Niguel Botanical Preserve offers a peaceful escape where men can unwind, meditate and connect with the beauty of the natural world. This outdoor oasis features a diverse collection of plants and gardens, providing a tranquil environment for self-reflection. This breathtaking sanctuary spans 18 acres of lush Southern California landscape. Admission is free, parking is ample and the preserve is open seven days a week, 365 days a year. It’s a must-visit destination for those seeking tranquility in Southern California.
Location: Laguna Niguel
Grab Lunch at Protein Lab
Itās time to let the big dogs eat. Protein Lab in both Brea and Buena Park offers healthy and delicious protein-packed meals, smoothies and snacks to fuel your body. Eating well is a crucial aspect of self-care, and Protein Lab knows this. They are serving up nutrient-dense meals like their superfood bowls and protein shakes to fuel you for your modern manās day out. Hot tip: you can turn any smoothie into a bowl too! Fan favorites include the Marathon Superfood Bowl and the Hermosa Bowl for peanut butter lovers. Plus you can top anything with some of your favorite childhood cereals for an extra dose of nostalgia. Most items are under $10 and include 25-30 grams of protein.Ā
Location: Brea, Buena Park
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Retail Therapy at Shop Moniker

Shop Moniker in Liberty Station is a boutique showcasing a curated selection of men’s clothing, accessories and lifestyle products. And if we know anything, itās that retail therapy might be the best form of self-care. Shop Moniker offers a well-curated collection of items that cater to the modern man’s style and tastes, making it an ideal destination for shopping enthusiasts. The shop is open 9 a.m. until 7 p.m. every day,and visitors can expect to find anything from clothes and home goods to self-care staples.
Location: Liberty Station
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Get a Massage at Tomoko Japanese Spa
Tomoko Japanese Spa provides a luxurious and authentic Japanese spa experience in Los Angeles, offering a range of massages and treatments inspired by Japanese wellness traditions. This serene and upscale setting is a perfect place for the modern man to relax and rejuvenate. With a range of traditional Japanese treatments, including Shiatsu massages and Omakase-style rituals, Tomoko’s expert therapists ensure an immersive and pampering experience. You get your own private room, and each self-care session starts with tea and a foot soak before your treatment begins. Guests can use the room to shower after their treatment. Massage packages range from $350 to $500, depending on how luxe or long you want.Ā
Location: Beverly Hills
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House of AANUKO Barbershop

House of AANUKO Barbershop delivers top-notch grooming services and serves craveworthy coffee, keeping you caffeinated during your cut. This super-cool salon is doing things their own way by turning the simple act of getting a trim into a full self-care experience. Here, you can sit back, relax, and stay as long as you like. Open seven days a week, this is a great spot for a matcha and a mullet!
Location: Culver City
- Jane Adlerhttps://localemagazine.com/author/janeadler/
- Jane Adlerhttps://localemagazine.com/author/janeadler/
- Jane Adlerhttps://localemagazine.com/author/janeadler/
- Jane Adlerhttps://localemagazine.com/author/janeadler/